John Okeme
My recent book, UnSingle Me!
You will find out the secret to finding love and maintaining thae love you desire, to maintain that UnSingle version of you. Whether you are single or in a relationship, lasting love doesn’t have to be left to luck. There are proven principles and practices that help—and they’re available to anyone willing to learn.
Join either of my events for a live session where you can ask all your questions.
Here's a little bit about my journey...
I never set out to become a relationship coach or author—in fact, the younger me would’ve said, “Never!”
My journey began in 1991, when I witnessed the painful breakdown of my parents’ marriage as a child in Lagos, Nigeria. That moment left a deep mark and shaped how I viewed relationships—often swinging between hope and hopelessness.
Over the years, I quietly searched for answers. Why do some relationships fall apart while others flourish? That curiosity led me through books, personal experiences, academic study, and eventually, into coaching, public speaking and writing.
I’m happily married to my lovely wife, Odunola, and together we’re raising three amazing children. What I share isn’t just theory—it’s lived experience. From my own journey, to the powerful transformations I’ve witnessed in the lives of men and women I’ve coached, this work is real, personal, and deeply rewarding.
Whether you’re Single, Dating, in a Relationship, or Married—if you’re tired of disappointment, longing for deeper connection, or simply ready to grow, let’s have a conversation.
Oh, and for those who know me as a singer—yes, I still sing and occasionally offer vocal coaching to select clients